I understand.. I've tried that too, to set up the name in front of the email address in the "Reply to" field, but no change.
By the way, when I didn't have to use SMTP to send emails it showed up just fine with the name and the email of the person sending the form,
but now I have to use SMTP, otherwise emails won't go thought, I'm guessing something to do with the hosting.
The form is set up correctly, to present the sender name and address,
but when combining it with SMTP it overrides the name.
It is a bit annoying because when you try to find a specific email,
all you see is a bunch of emails with the website name instead of the person.
Any ideas?